We know doggy style is your favorite position, and we get it—the angle works great for penetration, your hands are free to roam her body, and THAT VIEW.
Women enjoy the doggy style position, too. The penetration is deep, it feels exciting and dirty, and your excitement is thrilling.
That said, doggy style can feel impersonal. It can hurt if you get carried away and keep banging at her cervix, or if your dick is huge. And it can be tricky, if not impossible, for many women to orgasm in this position.
7 Ways to Make Doggy Style Amazing
1. Explore the G-Spot from Your Position
If your date is one of those legendary squirters, or she enjoys G-spot stimulation, doggy is hands down the best position for sex. Make sure you check in with her about what angles feel best, and what kind of pressure she needs.
If your date shows no interest in G-spot sex, or tells you she won’t or can’t squirt, don’t act as if you know better and bang away back there. This position makes us more vulnerable to pain during penetration, and if she’s not feeling it, move on.
Read: G-Spot Tips For Better Orgasms
2. Go for Doggy if She’s not into Kissing
Doggy style sex can feel impersonal, so if that’s the only position our lover ever wants, it can start to feel a bit strange.
But impersonal is often a selling point for casual hookups or new encounters. Some women don’t feel comfortable with too much mouth to mouth with a new partner—it feels too intimate when they just want to get off.
3. Do Doggy when You Want a Sizzling Quickie
If she’s asked to arrange a nice quick fuck, look forward to ravaging her from behind. I love it when your dick springs out of your jeans and you shove my skirt up my waist and pull me back towards you.
Read: Dos and Don’ts for Quickie Hookups
4. Use Doggy for Your Grand Finale
Since some women won’t come on all fours, but you will, make it the last position of your fuck fest. Make sure she comes first at least once, with her on top, or you on top, or licking her pussy until she’s bucking against your face. Once she’s satisfied, flip her over and drive it home.
5. Open Her Options by Adjusting Her Position
If she’s on all fours, she won’t be able to rub her clit while you’re thrusting away. But if she’s facing a wall upright, she can balance with one hand and play with herself with the other.
6. Use Your Hands to Touch Her clitoris
On the other hand, you’ve got two hands free. You can reach around or between her legs and touch her to help get her off. This is a way to make this position a little more intimate.
7. Do It In Front of a Mirror
For me, the most powerful thing about doggy style is the intensity of your arousal. I love getting fucked from behind, but it doesn’t do “more” for me than any other position. The big deal is how amped up it makes you. So being able to see all the action, watch your facial expressions, and see my own body in a mirror can really turn me on.
If not being able to gaze into each other’s eyes is a drawback, a mirror is the fix.
Want more sex position ideas? See 5 Cowgirl Sex Positions and 5 Fun Blowjob Positions to try.
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