Best Casual Hookup Sites: 2021 Edition
Hey guys! Lola here. Welcome to the Hookup Land list of the best hookup sites for 2021.
These are the best sites I’ve found for finding real local hookups and casual relationships. They all have some kind of free membership with basic features so you can usually try before you buy. (Pro top: some dating sites actually offer more of their free features on desktop/laptop than on mobile due to space constraints.) My advice is to test drive a few for free before deciding which one suits you in terms of the number of profiles where you live, and which features you like the most. Hookup dating should be fun, so get creative with your profile and enjoy the naughty offerings at these sites!
Lola’s Recommendations for Hookups
Disclosure: I myself use, or have used, the following sites as a full member. Because I’ve been satisfied with my experiences at these sites and know they’re the real thing, I’m comfortable recommending them to my readers. As such, I use links that allow me to receive a small compensation, but only if someone chooses to upgrade their membership. So if you don’t dig it, I don’t benefit either. Deal?
Biggest and best thanks to their huge database which has profiles from all over the world and likely has more profiles of members in your local area than any other hookup site you’ll join. AFF comes loaded with features such as video, chat, video introductions, well thought-out privacy options, and member blogs to name a few. If you haven’t joined yet be sure to check this one out.
Fling.com is another popular casual dating site. What makes them different? They push the idea of having online flings as well as seeking partnerships offline. You can indulge in these flings by setting up private video chatrooms with other members. You can keep your fling entirely online if you choose, or meet in person and take it to the next level. But don’t let this “online fling” idea dissuade you from trying them out, because the truth is most of the members do want to hookup “in real life”, at least in my experience.
Hookups for Couples & Threesome Hunters
The two big sites above are great for couples as well as singles. Very few dating sites allow couples to join with one profile, but both AFF and Fling welcome couples and doing so makes finding threesomes much easier. If you and your partner are on the prowl together, or you’re a single who’d love to become a couple’s plaything, you should also consider the following couples dating sites.
Couples Dating is an excellent option for couples who might be looking for a third to join them for a hookup or an ongoing relationship. Polyamorous people flock here and all sorts of hookups are on offer. For some, the more the merrier, and for others it’s just the good old threesome fantasy that brings them to Couples Dating. What I need to mention here is that CouplesDating.com uses the same back end and database of members as AdultFriendFinder.com so you only need to consider joining one of them. The main difference is that couples are featured more prominently at Couples Dating.
Threesomes are like the holy grail of hookups. Out in the bar or club scene they seem like something that can just randomly happen when you’re not expecting it, although probably a little too rarely for most guys’s liking! Enter a site like 3some Dating. Why wait for ‘random’ when you be actively setting up your next threesome from home? This site has a bit of a social media vibe, and allows for more exploration of the site with their free membership than some of the others on this list.
For Those Who Like Their Hookups Kinky
As I mentioned above, I’m all about niche dating. I believe people seeking hookups online have a much better chance of success with sites that are more specific to their true desires. In the realm of hooking up, hanging out with like-minded babes is going to get you a lot more action than if you only use general sites and apps like Tindr or OKcupid. So share your kink with those who’d welcome you with open arms..
All fetishes and kinks welcome! If you’re into BDSM, foot fetish, leather lingerie, sex toys,.. ( I could go on forever here!) Whatever it is that tickles you’re fancy is not only tolerated at Fetish Hookups, but enjoyed and celebrated. Don’t worry about disclosing your kink on the first date, wear it loud and proud right on your profile. Scary? Try it and be liberated! You’ll be glad you did when those fantasies start becoming reality.
I’m just putting this one out there to show you just how niche things can get. And because I KNOW you guys who dream of getting pegged are out there! This site has been really popular with readers at another blog I write for called Kink Lovers, so I thought I’d see if Hookup Land readers were game as well. Hell, Cosmo even put this in an article claiming strapon sex should be on everyone’s bucket list! Times have changed, in a good way.
Good Luck and Happy Hookup Hunting!