I decided to come back to this popular post I wrote on the best hookup sites, and update it for 2021. The year is just beginning, but I’d like to go ahead and take stock of the best hookup sites for 2021. Let’s leave out the Eharmonys and the Match.coms and get right to the good stuff. We’re rounding up the five best sites for getting laid. Actual, real, local sex. As opposed to chatting with robots and and other dating scams.
This site is at the top of the heap year after year for a few reasons. It has more members seeking sex than any other hookup dating site which means more members close to home. It has all the features you might want including video chat, dirty member blogs, and niche groups. They also give you access to the chat rooms and member video chat rooms with their free membership, so a test drive, at the very least, is in order. I always keep an active profile at this site and so should you!
Fling is another site that’s been around long enough to amass a good sized membership – 6 million! Aside from being one of the biggies, they also offer webcam chat which is becoming standard for any good adult dating site. And of course, there’s also the mobile version. Don’t take this for granted, folks, not all hookup sites are going to have a functioning mobile site. I’m looking at you AdultDateLink!
Since originally publishing this list a few years back, which sites got booted and which have been added? Well, SexSearch.com used to make the grade, in particular because they allowed women to join for free which helped out the all important male to female ratio. But due to reports of fake messages we’ve decided to drop them. New on the scene? Find a Threesome. This site uses the powerful backend of AdultFriendFinder, mentioned above, so you can be sure they have more than enough legit members. The beauty of this site is how it caters to the growing number of people looking for threesomes, either as individuals or as couples. Our readers have been loving this site since it came out a couple years ago so voila! They’ve made it to the top 5.
A hook up site for the Sexual Connoisseur. It includes a huge database like Adult Friend Finder with an emphasis on sexual preferences. Ooh la la! When you fill out the join form you’ll be faced with a list of activities ranging from “receiving oral sex” to “role playing” to “sex in public places”. Once you’ve rated each one on a scale of “Gotta have it” to “Never gonna happen” you’ll be matched with partners based on your sexual compatibility. Yes, this site is all about getting it on.
Plenty of Fish is the only one in my top five that’s free for everybody and doesn’t require an upgrade. But know this: no membership fee means you have to do a lot more wading, because there are plenty of fish in this sea that aren’t looking for purely casual hookups. This will narrow your search but the database is huge to start with. Plenty of fish is technically not an adult site which means there’s no nudity and no cams, unfortunately. You’ll just have to wait until you actually hookup to see what she looks like with her clothes off. And since I’m updating this list I’ll throw OKcupid.com in here as well. Another free site, but again, no nudity either.