My Girls Want to Party All the Time
Believe it or not, I don’t just sit around blogging because I want attention. I’m actually a professional writer (and horndog!), with both deadlines and expectations upon me. My bosses count on me to bring my personal experience and perspective to topics as assigned. This assignment was an odd one:
I was asked to write about getting my girl in the mood when she just ain’t in the mood. Let me swear on the life of my mother, right here and now, that this isn’t a problem in my life: the women I have sex with don’t have low-libido issues—at least not when they’re with me.
Let me assure you it’s not because I’m some perfect, flick-switching, fail-safe studmuffin; nor am I delusional. What I am is always ready, with a full bag of tricks on hand. The magic lies in the on hand bit. For example:
I keep an assortment of dildos, sex toys, fancy sheets, porn links, et al—and none of them are tailored for me. The trick is the woman must know these things are all for her. All of these items (including the type of porn) are of a sort that women prefer. And in my experience, when a woman sees these things available to her, and understands that you are all about pleasuring her, well… let’s just say women love that sort of thing. Not only do they like to feel special, they like attention, and they like to know they have yours completely.
More often than not, if I’m hooking up with someone and it gets to the point of heading back to my place, chances are none of this will be an issue—if she didn’t want to be there she wouldn’t be in the first place. But on a lazy weekend afternoon, hanging around, maybe she’s just not feelin’ the love.
That’s when the sexual pampering begins. It may take a bit longer to get her gears going than it would after a drunken night of dancing, but make the time. Rush and you’ll only get your plug pulled.
(Important note – if she’s sick, with a cold or the barfs or PMS cramps or whatever, then of course all bets are off. Leave her be. Maybe make her some soup, instead; keep the pampering on the therapeutic side of life.)
As always—wishing you Peace, Love, and All Things Sexy!