Last week I dove into the topic of penis size. (It had to happen at some point.) Hopefully I was able to convince you that whatever size cut of meat you’re packing, your lady will feel satisfied after she’s had her fill.
If you’re still feeling skeptical, don’t worry. It’s going to take some time to overcome the years of size shaming that’s been heaped upon you and every other man.
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Use these suggestions to help you accept and even embrace your cock. Cocks of all shapes and sizes are needed in this world because guess what? Pussies come in all shapes and sizes, too.
Review Your Track Record
Think back to those times when you were giving it to a woman and she was loving it. I’m sure you can think of at least one time. Was she wet? Was she asking for more? Was she screaming out your name, or invoking her favored deity? I bet she was, and you know why? Your cock fit her pussy perfectly and you were hitting all the spots.
Some of the best sex I’ve had was not with men who society would deem well-endowed, but they fit me and they knew how to please. Besides, a really big cock can feel uncomfortable, especially if it belongs to someone who hasn’t learned how to use it.
Don’t Dwell on It
Try not to get too anxious about the size of your cock. Feeling stressed out and worried about what your partner might think, will only make it that much more of a challenge to perform. Boners shrink away from anxiety, as I’m sure you’ve noticed.
Be in the moment and don’t think about anything other than the hot, hot sex you’re about to enjoy. Also, you really have no idea what your partner might be thinking. Have you personally seen every cock that she has seen? Maybe her frame of reference is such that yours looks like a baseball bat compared to all the others. And if yours is the only cock she’s seen, then there’s no room for disappointment, is there?
Don’t Try to Change It
As a woman who has seen her share of penises, all of which were totally unique and desirable, I can tell you that yours is great, just as it is. Don’t buy one of those pumps, or try to stretch it out like silly putty. Don’t opt for penis-enlargement surgery or any other torturous procedure that exists for the sole purpose of exploiting your insecurities.
Focus instead on being the kind of guy you want to be, because that’s way more important to most ladies than the bulge in your pants. I know that sounds like the cheesy kind of thing your mom would tell you after your date ditches you at the party, but it’s true!
Focus on Your Assets
If you’re still completely unsure about your ability to compete in the size arena, try to really hone your skills in other departments. A guy who can master oral sex will have no trouble satisfying his date, with or without full-on penetration.
Learn the art of slow, sensuous foreplay, and she’ll be aching to cum before your cock even enters the scene. It’s all about setting the mood and getting her turned on, so really work on doing that well and you’ll make a name for yourself as a stellar lover. Cock size is only one part of the equation, and a minor part at that. Trust me.
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