Premature ejaculation is an issue that plagues many guys and leaves a trail of unsatisfied women in its wake.
There are lots of clever definitions for it: to jettison your bombs before the mission is complete… to shoot the juice before you get it in the caboose, but no matter what funny thing you compare it to, it’s no laughing matter, especially if it happens every time you try to have sex.
So what can you do to slow yourself down and give your lady the long, sensuous, fucking she needs?
If you only ever let your men out once a week on date night, of course they’re going to rush the gate. Try keeping a regular date with your hand, and you should begin to notice a definite improvement in your staying power.
A word of caution, though; jacking off to porn all the time can really compromise your ability to get it up for the real deal. Use porn when you really need to, but try to do it the old fashioned way whenever possible.
Vary the Tempo
When you feel yourself getting close, try slowing down. Give your body a chance to collect itself by halting the momentum for a bit. Try mixing it up by alternating between fast and slow thrusts (keeping a certain pattern to your movements). This should have the added bonus of really exciting your partner and building her anticipation.
Shift your Thoughts
Put the brakes on by thinking about something a little less than sexy. What works for you is completely unique, so practice conjuring different images as you masturbate to see what works best.
The idea is to gain some control over your mind and body, which (let’s face it) will probably take some effort to achieve, so don’t be too hard on yourself if it doesn’t happen right away. You want to find the right balance that will delay your gratification, but not kill your desire altogether.
Make Up for It in Other Ways
If you really can’t help but blow your load as soon as your cock detects a nearby pussy, the best thing you can do is learn to be a generous lover. So you’ve received your payoff a little early? That doesn’t mean you should call it a night. Spend lots of time pleasuring your partner.
If you feel secure enough in your manhood, use a dildo to finish the job. You can strap it to your leg for your lady to ride in cowgirl position, or take the reigns yourself and give it to her for as long as she needs. Being fucked with a dildo can feel so hot, especially when someone else is handling it. Think of your “issue” as an opportunity to expand your sexual repertoire and your partner will thank you for it.