I’m willing to bet that your favorite sex position is doggie style. It’s no secret that dudes love to stand or kneel behind and pound that thing against her ass, watching as your dick slides in and out.
A close contender is the one that is supposedly vanilla or boring. And though god forbid any of us ever have to choose one position, if we could only have one, ever again, I bet that almost everyone would secretly check “missionary” on their ballots.
Overall, missionary is the best sex position, and here are the reasons why.
There are lots of positions within the missionary position.
Far from living up to its unfashionable reputation, missionary is so versatile. She can be spreadeagled, or scissored, or flat on her back with her legs down. You can be laid out on top of her, kneeling between her legs, or even squatting over her.
It’s easier for her to come.
She’s used to masturbating in this position, for one thing. I can come on top or underneath you, but even with the help of a vibrator or your hands, I probably won’t orgasm in doggie.
I can touch myself when you’re on top of me and I’m on my back, and when you’re kneeling, you can use your hands to play with my clitoris.
It’s the kissing position.
Missionary position is a lot more intimate than doggie, reverse cowgirl, standing on one yoga leg, or lowering myself from the parallel bars onto your dick.
Those are great, but when we want to MAKE LOVE, this is it.
You can bite my throat, or we can make out with open mouths to mimic whatever action is happening down below.
Eye contact revs things up for new partners, and deepens intimacy for familiar ones.
Same thing, but different—just like kissing and biting, eye contact is the stuff of lovemaking.
When we’re staring open eyed at each other while you penetrate me, well, that takes it to a whole different level.
Your weight on her body adds to her arousal.
Pressure against my pelvis is difficult to get from any other position. I don’t always need it, but the weight of it gives amazing sensations. Feeling you on top of me is heaven.
That thing you do, pinning my hands above my head while you thrust, is super hot. What more can be said? That thing you do—do it again.
She gets to see you.
Your maleness is on full view. I get to watch you thrusting, grunting, sweating, and see your expression when you explode. Hot!
You can watch the action close up.
You get to see her when she comes. If you’re kneeling, you get to see her pussy spread open and watch your dick thrusting in and out of her.
It’s a natural bondage position.
I suppose you can tie her up and dominate her from the bottom if you have special pulleys and levers fixed to your ceiling, but generally, if you want to restrain her with a scarf or fuzzy handcuffs or whatever’s on hand, missionary is easiest.
It’s suitable for high-energy marathons or goodnight quickies.
Missionary is versatile not only for sex positions, but also for the styles and needs of the encounter. It can be hot and quick or slow and savory, and if you’re both exhausted but still want to be close or get off, you can relax and move together before drifting off.
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