Maybe you’ve mastered the art of eating pussy already and launched a thousand ships with your tongue’s mighty prowess. I say kudos for the all the pleasure you give to the world.
Maybe you’re not sure if what you’re doing is enough, even though your dates seem happy at your efforts.
5 Common Cunnilingus Mistakes
1. Don’t Hurry, Be Happy
A little licking can warm her up, but once in awhile, get comfortable for the long haul and work that pussy over and under your lips, tongue, and teeth.
It’s difficult for a woman to relax during oral if she knows you’ll be moving on in thirty seconds. Think about fifteen minutes or more, or just allow yourself to get lost. Assure her you’ve parked to stay by gently nudging her back into place when she shifts herself or pulls you upwards to enter her.
Spoil every part of her pussy with relish and leisure.
2. Don’t Dive Right In
Remember to tease and torment. Think of cunnilingus as a session that consists of foreplay, imaginative exploration, steady motions, and orgasmic aftermath.
Start slow and build her arousal, and you’ll see how responsive her body gets.
You can start outside the panties. Nibble her thighs. Run your fingers lightly over her vulva, then your tongue. Spread her apart and gently blow. You know she’s revved up when she’s bucking like a bronco when you haven’t even put your mouth on her yet.
3. Don’t Forget to Use Your Imagination
Whatever your favorite pussy eating style is—round and round on her clitoris, tongue thrusting, sucking, lapping top to bottom—vary it for awhile before moving onto the steady stimulation she’ll need to get off.
Try lightly tracing all her parts with the tip of your tongue. Flick back and forth on her clit. Suck it gently as if you are nursing. Put your mouth around her hole as if you are French kissing her mouth. Spread her pussy apart with your hands—the pulling sensation heightens everything and exposes her.
Wet her with your saliva. Bite her vulva gently, and get a little more rough if she indicates that it feels good. Pull her inner labia lightly between your teeth, and suck them into your mouth. Kiss it. Use your fingers and mouth together.
4. Don’t Forget to Use a Consistent Steady Motion to Get Her Off
Once you’ve licked her in every way conceivable, you’ll want to move into a persistent, consistent technique for the long haul. She usually needs a particular kind of stimulation, without varying it up, in order to climax.
Ask her what she needs to get off. Ask her to show you with her hand, and then replicate it with your mouth.
5. Don’t Assume What Worked on Someone Else Will Work for Her
The only thing you really need to know about pleasing a woman is that you’re starting anew every time you’re with a new lady. She is a world unto herself. The things that drove your last girlfriend or hookup crazy might fall flat or even turn her off.
Don’t be intimidated by this, ever. Enjoy the beautiful variety of experiences. Whether your passionate encounter is just for tonight or something you will enjoy moving forward, discovering what works for this particular woman should always be an exciting journey, not something to fear. It’s such a turn on for us to show you, and to discover new things with you.
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