So you want to pleasure her by licking her starfish. How in the world does a guy bring that up? How do you convince her to stick her tongue into yours? Is it safe to play this way?
Everything You Need to Know about Rimming
DON’T just make a grab for it and hope for the best.
You might be lucky enough to find a dirty girl who will let you do anything during a hookup, but most women won’t give up their ass unless they’re with a regular partner and feel comfortable and secure.
DO make her comfortable by getting into the shower and soaping up together.
If you’re going to put your tastebuds on my asshole, I need to feel clean and fresh up to the minute.
DO make sure she’s turned on to the max.
Anal play for women is not an alternative hole for when we’re menstruating, so don’t expect her to beg for anal unless you’ve turned her on so intensely that she’ll do anything to be satisfied. She won’t feel all those beautiful nerve endings and sensations if she’s not amped out of her mind.
DON’T hold back once you’ve been invited.
There’s nothing less satisfying than finally being horny enough to want your tongue in my ass, and you being done after two or three little licks. If I let you in, then get comfortable.
DON’T expect anal sex with your cock, but be ready just in case.
I don’t want to feel that you’re just licking my butt in hopes of putting something bigger in there and getting off that way. I want to give in to the pleasure and relax without expectation.
That said, if you drive me so crazy that I want something bigger than your tongue, be ready to enter.
DO spread my ass cheeks.
Be creative and sensual when performing a rim job. Don’t just lap at my butt like a dog. Use some fingers only for my pussy, which you don’t want to neglect, and others to knead my ass cheeks, and run them up and down my crack.
Pull my ass apart gently to give your tongue access to my hole. Use your lips, kissing it like a mouth. Spread my cheeks, and let me feel your saliva dripping into me. Experiment with different techniques and strokes and touches, so I can experience different sensations.
DON’T ignore the risks.
In theory and in fantasy, licking ass is an incredibly sensuous act, but its taboo for a reason. The orifice of elimination joining with the mouth is risky. You don’t have to encounter actual shit to run into serious health risks—bacteria is microscopic and can’t be seen with the eye. You can get parasites, amoebas, hepatitis, herpes, syphilis, and more.
Having a long-term monogamous partner is your best risk reduction for rimming, but even if you’re both virgins, bacteria and parasites are common.
Dr. Pega Ren recommends using Saran Wrap as a barrier for rimming—dental dams are thicker and smaller, and plastic wrap allows you to enjoy the sights.
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