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Hookups: Good Girls vs. Bad Girls

Hookups: Good Girls vs. Bad Girls

Christopher September 29, 2014 0

I poo-poo the terms “good girls” and “bad girls.” The connotations are that of boring and slutty, respectively. Totally unfair. Sort of. Not entirely. Good girls certainly consider themselves so, but based on what?

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What to Do When There’s No Chemistry on a First Date

What to Do When There’s No Chemistry on a First Date

Jenny September 25, 2014 0

Finding chemistry with a new partner is something we all hope for, but is it always instantaneous? You hear stories or maybe have experienced that immediate spark with someone that has led to a

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How to Avoid Blue Balls

How to Avoid Blue Balls

Christopher September 22, 2014 0

It’s no secret that the most effective way to murder a male hookup is to blue-ball him. Then there’s that lesser charge — the dating equivalent of manslaughter — whereby a woman doesn’t intend

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Opening Up Your Relationship

Opening Up Your Relationship

Lola Page September 18, 2014 0

You and your partner have both expressed desires and interest in other people. Perhaps you both want to go out on your own and have sexy hookups with new lovers, or maybe you’re looking

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The Difference Between a Hookup and a First Date

The Difference Between a Hookup and a First Date

Christopher September 15, 2014 0

Is It Over Yet? Some hookups can get to feel like waiting in a Wal-Mart checkout line on Black Friday, lasting so long you start to worry about getting cankles before cashing out. Chances

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Hookup Help: Finding a Third for a Threesome

Hookup Help: Finding a Third for a Threesome

Jenny September 11, 2014 0

Q: Hi Jenny. My girlfriend and I are interested in finding a woman for a threesome. We’ve run down a list of our female friends, but none of them fit both our criteria which includes

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What Happens when You Fall for a Hookup

What Happens when You Fall for a Hookup

Christopher September 8, 2014 0

“That Was Awesome! Can I Love You?” Uh-oh: that hookup you’ve just fallen for doesn’t feel the same way about you! How devastating! And unsurprising. Most of us are using hookups for quick shags

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Finding a Kinky Hookup Partner

Finding a Kinky Hookup Partner

Lola Page September 4, 2014 0

If you’re looking for a hookup partner to fulfill a specific sexually fantasy or fetish, you may experience some difficulty in finding exactly what you want, depending on your specific kink. You might be

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Hookups: Your Place or Mine?

Hookups: Your Place or Mine?

Christopher September 1, 2014 0

Really, there are only about three significant considerations regarding where to have a one night stand: Safety/comfort level The cleanliness (or filthiness) of your place Controlling when the date ends Let’s be realistic about

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When Your Sex Drive Is Higher than Hers

When Your Sex Drive Is Higher than Hers

Jenny August 28, 2014 0

Even when you find someone who is sexually compatible (not an easy task!), you may have sex drives that aren’t always in sync. If it’s just a booty call arrangement or a friends-with-benefits type

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