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Where to Meet Women for Strap-On Hookups

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Q: Dear Holly. I want to meet women who are into pegging. I first saw a woman wearing a strap-on in porn, and now it’s all I can think about. I also like dominant women who take charge during sex. Just finding a woman like that is hard enough! Is it possible to meet women on dating sites like this, or do I have to hire someone to make my fantasy a reality. – Atilla

A: Hi Atilla. A lot of fantasies and fixations come from porn, and you’re right it’s not usually the same when it comes to dating in the real world. It may be challenging, but finding pegging hookups is not impossible.

How to Find Strapon Hookups

Dating sites have come a long way in recent years. You still have mainstream hookup sites, but there are also many niche dating sites that cater to particular lifestyles and desires including pegging.

I would recommend that you join a kinky dating site. To find what you’re looking for, you’ll want to create a kinky dating profile that doesn’t hold back.

You will find lots of stories, tips and strapon advice at Kink Lovers, our sister blog dedicated to the BDSM lifestyle and all it has to offer.

Pegging Hookup Sites

Now, when it comes to meeting women with strap-ons, you can try a pegging hookup site. I still can’t believe how specific sites have become. At these strapon sites, you’ll find women who would love nothing more than to peg you from behind.

BDSMdate.com

This monster BDSM site has plenty of dominant women looking for submissive men. They have fetish chat rooms, member groups, and the largest group of kinky people on any site making it easier for finding local pegging partners.

You can join for free and with a very affordable monthly membership fee, you’ll enjoy a host of perks the site has to offer. This is one of the only strapon hookup sites I know that has live streaming video, and video introductions.

BDSM Date really has an anything-goes vibe, accepts all kinks and orientations, and even allows nudity! Very, very  hot.

StraponDating.com

Strapon Dating is definitely the site most dedicated to this particular kink, which leads to some pros and cons.

Specifically, this strapon hookup site is awesome because all of it’s members are there to either peg or get pegged and finding people who share your kink is instant. However, because the focus is so narrow it may be harder to find partners in smaller towns.

Lastly, Strapon Dating is very basic and doesn’t offer the same exciting features of our first pick. That’s okay though, because not everyone needs all the bells and whistles. Some just want a straight forward site for arranging strapon hookups and this one delivers.

Hey readers! Are you into pegging? Where do you meet strap-on play partners?

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