How to Undress a Woman for Sex

Is it just me, or have most men given up on this awesome form of foreplay? I just don’t hook up with enough men who are suave at the art of undressing a woman. And it boggles my mind because it’s one of the easiest ways to get a lady turned on, and not nearly as difficult as finding her g-spot.

Tips for Undressing a Woman

Slow and Steady

There are times when ripping another person’s clothes off is necessary, when the chemistry is off-the-charts; but most of the time, a woman prefers to be undressed slowly and sensually. And there’s no better way to explore her body than to seductively remove one garment at a time.

Gentle Touch

Again, this isn’t always going to be the case, but gentle hands caressing and undressing will get a woman wet fast. This steady-as-she-goes foreplay is increasing your woman’s chance of orgasm, which must be a priority.

Eye Contact

It may be hard to look away from a beautiful woman’s body, but eye contact is very important before and during sex. It helps to increase connection and the level of intensity between you and your partner. Show her your multi-tasking abilities!

Hands Plus

Some women’s clothing definitely requires your hands to unzip, unfasten, or unclasp; but not all. Teeth are very good at yanking and pulling, too. And while you’re slowly unlayering your lover, don’t forget to kiss, lick, and nibble.

Top to Bottom

Save her sweet spot for last. Start with her top by unbuttoning her blouse/sweater (always better than pulling a shirt over a woman’s head, not sexy!) and move south. If she’s wearing stockings, slowly roll them down, kissing the inside of her thighs.

Just writing this post is turning me on. I still have fond memories of the men I’ve met (and some only one-night stands!) who really knew how to undress me properly. So if you want to be a memorable lover, don’t wait for a woman to undress herself; make it part of your skill set. You won’t regret it; she won’t forget it!

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