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5 Things more Important than a Big Cock

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I overheard some women talking in the showers at my gym.

“If guys spent as much time worrying about the rest of what happens in bed, as they do about the size of their dicks, they would be much better lovers.”

A couple others chuckled, and one confessed to her preference for a larger penis. One said she preferred average guys because sex wasn’t comfortable with King Kong. The one who liked big dicks actually said, “But it’s not the most important thing. There is so much more that matters.”

There you have it guys. You have just eavesdropped on women’s candid locker-room talk. Cock size is NOT the most important thing about sex, EVEN when a woman has a preference for it, which is not all of them. This is important news for you whatever size you’re packing.

More Important than Having a Big Cock Is…

1. Being a Good Listener

I can tell you right now, some of you only heard one thing in the conversation above—the woman who admitted she likes bigger dicks. The rest of the story is just white noise, even the part where that woman herself said that other things matter more.

Start listening to women. When she tells you what’s more important, you want to pay attention. We tell you or show you what we want and need, but you’re not always listening.

2. Having a Job

Yes, having a job is way more important than having a big cock.

We understand that not all of you are CEOs or high powered consultants. We also understand that guys get laid off or injured, just like we do. But if you’re the guy who never has a job because he doesn’t want menial work, there’s a chance you’ll be jerking off alone instead of taking me from behind. Having a job, however humble, says you’re an adult.

Also overhead (on a city bus):

Guy (about 25): “I don’t understand why you won’t hook up with me.”
Girl: “Because you won’t work and still live with your mother.”

3. Being a Great Kisser

Kissing is a sensual skill that will land you hearts and loins long before she has any idea what you’ve got in your pants.

It’s how most women assess whether they want to continue to sex, so being good at lip service makes it more likely you’ll get some.

4. Keeping it Clean and Tidy

If you were expecting tips on sex positions and body parts, sorry. But if you listen to even one of these tips you won’t be sorry! A woman can’t get comfortable if she’s uncomfortable. it’s important to make your pad hook-up friendly, so do your damn laundry, change the cat litter, and run a vacuum.

A guy’s sheets last month smelled like the morgue. His dick was big enough, just for the record, but I didn’t respond to his texts after that. No way was I going back there.

5. Being a Sensual Lover

We love a hot quickie once in awhile, but the way women are wired, it takes a lot longer for us to get fully worked up. Sure, we CAN do it fast. But women’s full arousal potential takes a slow simmer.

If you’re always in a hurry, the thrill will wear off fast. Guys who take their time are known in our books as “good lovers.”

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