Pussy licking is one of the most sensual and intimate sexual acts possible.
There is really no other way to be as up-close and personal. It’s also an unparalleled opportunity to give her pleasure, increase her arousal, and bring her to orgasm.
This is for those of you who love going down, but are always open to new pussy licking tips from women. We know what works!
Pussy Licking Tips to Please Her
1. Tease and Tantalize
If there’s one pussy licking tip you take to the bedroom out of all of my suggestions, let it be the one I mention in almost every post: The key to ALL great sex with a woman is arousal. A woman can always go higher. And when she’s there, she can go higher still.
Arousal begins much sooner than you think. If you’re having a glass of wine, brush against her fingers or kiss her and mention that you’re hungry for her pussy. Hell, text her the night before and say you can’t wait to taste it. Undress her slowly. Touch it from time to time over the panties with a feather stroke. Lick her neck and ask if it feels good, if that’s what she wants you to do when you get there.
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Take your time getting down there. Leave her panties on, just move them aside a little. Just lick her pussy a little bit, then go back. Once you’re going to town on her vulva, make her wait before you penetrate her with your tongue and wait again for your fingers.
2. Spread Her Open
Once a woman is warmed up, and not before, take her into overdrive by opening her pussy up wide. Part of a woman’s sexual arousal and fulfillment that is often overlooked is very simple—the spreading.
Many women aren’t aware of this themselves. Our arousal is ratcheted up when a lover says, “spread your legs” or when you pull us gently open with both hands, but don’t think about it when masturbating, and most sex tips talk about positions that make a tight fit for your cock.
But vaginas open, and the more aroused we are, the more they can open, for a bigger dildo, your hand, and ultimately, childbirth. Unless you and your lover practice regular fisting, she can open more. And doing so is extremely pleasurable.
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Never just “pull” her open roughly. Open her slowly. Gently spread her, and encourage her to open her legs as wide as she can go while you are pussy licking, sucking, and fingering her.
3. Use a Mirror
Once she’s reclined and totally relaxed, nudge a small mirror into her hand so she can watch what you’re doing up close.
During sex, you usually get the best view. It’s not that easy to see what’s going on for us, and many women are too shy to suggest it. A bedroom mirror might feel like enough, but seeing the nitty gritty is different and incredibly hot.
For most of us, this won’t seem like a great idea until we are already amped up, so don’t suggest it while she’s doing dishes. The last thing she wants then is a foggy close-up of pubic hair follicles, trust me. When she’s starting to pull your head against her and buck, that’s when you slip the mirror into her hand.
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