Here’s one for all the young guys curious about older women dating younger men.
Once when I was still a pup I had a fling with an older woman who was 39, and it was great. For the longest time I looked upon the episode as a novelty hookup (39 seemed so old!, the whole Mrs. Robinson thing). Sure enough, with hindsight, I realized age can make all the difference in the world when it comes to sexy know-how.
Older Women & Younger Men
Hooking up with an older woman changed me forever:
- Best blowjob (up to then, of course).
- Who knew I had a g-spot (so that’s what a prostate is!)
- She insisted on controlling her own orgasm — not just because she was better at it, but she didn’t want it fucked up by an amateur.
So while you’re sitting around thinking you’ve got it made in the shade with that 21 year old you picked up at the pole-dancing party, a smarter guy is learning the way sex is meant to be had.
I’m not saying a woman needs a walker before she’s learned the moves, but, seriously, a woman doesn’t kick in to high gear until at least her mid-30’s, by which point she becomes a machine, and only gets feistier with age.
And that’s only one of the reasons why younger men are dating older women.
Benefits of Older Women Younger Men Relationships
For the sake of clarity, however, let’s define “older”. I’m not talking about “grannies” (I know nothing about dating grannies). I’m referring to women commonly known as “cougars”. Older women dating younger men. But I also think this can apply to any woman significantly older than the guy himself.
Gentlemen, take my advice—do NOT pass on older women. You’d be making a big mistake. The math is simple:
Age = Experience = Confidence
Experience and Confidence. I defy anyone to tell me these two qualities aren’t at the root of attraction.
Maturity and know-how. That’s what older women bring to the table.
- They’re specific. They know what they want and how to make it work. Without a doubt they’ll be teaching you.
- Confidence, confidence, confidence. What could be sexier?
- A forthrightness that’s hotter than a pig-spit at an Orthodox Easter ceremony.
Older Women vs Younger Women
Not that there aren’t any intelligent young women (there are plenty, I know), but conversation tends to be more interesting with older women. They’ve usually seen more, done more, and can bring more to the table as a result.
Older women also tend to have less sexual hang-ups. They know what they want and they aren’t fickle about it. That is pretty darn sexy. And, if I can be so bold, it isn’t often that I learn a new sex trick from a younger woman.
And let’s talk beauty. Do I really need to take the time to list all the women who might be considered “older” but are still stunning? Not only are women capable of becoming more beautiful as they age (there are women who barely got a second look when they were younger who age into very fine beauties indeed); if they’re confident, their looks only radiate brighter.
Obviously I say all this from experience. For the longest time I only dated women younger than myself. When I finally had a mature hookup with an older woman, it turned out to be the best sex I ever had up to then. (I won’t list the tricks she taught me; let’s just say I still use them to this day…)
So don’t filter your profiles to exclude older women who date younger men! The least you can do is chat them up, and hear what they have to say.
One of my friends said it best: A couple of years ago, after spending a lifetime dating women who were younger than him, he told me, “Y’know, I’ve given it a lot of thought, and I’ve decided I can’t date younger women anymore. As soon as I cum, I have nothing left to say to them.”
If what you and your pals consider a “cougar” comes a-knockin’, don’t set your phasers to “no” so quickly. Why not learn from someone who might be able to up your game?
BTW — In no way am I suggesting that younger women can’t offer the same, but it’s rarer. Remember, boys: our machine starts young and runs outta steam early. Women are the opposite.
Enjoy the best while your junk’s still on fire!
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