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Great Sex No Matter What Your Size

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So what’s the average penis size? I’ve seen the spectrum, and it’s probably somewhere around six inches. If you don’t think you measure up you’ve either figured out ways to compensate, or you have insecurities that keep you from enjoying a fulfilling sex life.

A satisfying sex life is possible no matter what your size. The key elements to focus on are confidence, foreplay, and position.

Confidence

If having a small penis has affected your confidence, it’s going to negatively affect your performance in bed. Women don’t place nearly as much importance on penis size than men do. We care more about kissing and cuddling and chemistry.

If you do feel insecure about your size, hide it. When a man brings up his size issues and asks a new lover her opinion, “Do you think it’s small?, Am I average?”, it’s a mood killer. If you have to imagine your hung like a horse then do it. Just don’t bring attention to your size. A woman isn’t going to care if you make out with confidence. You can’t change your size, but you can improve all your lovemaking skills – practice, practice, practice.

Foreplay

Foreplay matters, not size. If you’re worried about how she’s going to come with you inside her, make sure she’s plenty aroused before you dive in. The closer she is to orgasm before you penetrate, the easier it will be to make her come once you enter. Kissing, touching, licking – pay attention to her entire body. Learn what she likes.

What else can you add in before intercourse? Dirty talk – don’t be shy. What about a little kink – sex toys, bondage, sensation play. Get creative.

Most importantly, pay attention to her clitoris. Sure it’s okay to do a little manual stimulation, but oral is what women respond to, it feels oh so good. If you know what you’re doing with your tongue down there, you could be the size of a pinky, and she won’t care. Multiple orgasms are impressive, so don’t be afraid to make her come by going down on her first. When you follow up with intercourse, you won’t have any performance anxiety.

Position

So you’ve got the confidence, or at least know how to fake it; you’ve wowed her with your foreplay abilities, maybe made her come already; now it’s time to get inside, choosing the right position. With a small penis, guys always worry about the woman feeling him inside her. Certain sexual positions can work to your advantage.

Doggie style makes any penis feel bigger than it is because of the angle it’s going in. Have her with her head touching the bed for maximum feel, and lean forward rather than at a ninety degree angle. She won’t last long in this position and neither will you!

Try the snake. Have your lover lie face down with her legs together. Place a pillow under her hips to raise her bottom. Straddle her and gently slide your way in, then hold her thighs together while you work it. Keep your weight off in this tight fitting position.

For the flexible woman, the rabbit ears position is a winner. On her back, have her raise her legs up on either side of your head, her knees touching your ears. Pull her close and place a pillow under her ass to get just the right angle. She’ll feel very full in this position. She can also masturbate while you’re inside for added stimulation.

A small penis is nothing to fret over. It could be worse, you could be too big. Believe me, a giant dick scares women off – one because it looks unattractive, and two, intercourse hurts when a penis is jamming at your cervix. With confidence, foreplay skills, and position know-how you’ll forget about size and measuring up.

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