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Tips for a Thoughtful First Date

Throughout my years as an online dater, I have noticed an emerging trend. It used to be that the internet was simply

I learned something MIND BLOWING the other day. I was sitting with a guy friend of mine, enjoying a coffee and chatting

When I fantasize about sex, I rarely focus on the intercourse part of it. Sure, it can be a transcendent thing to

Talking dirty is a tricky thing to pull off. It seems like it should be so easy, but trust me – there’s

When I first meet a guy, I don’t really look at his body. I look into his eyes as this can tell

I’ve been in and out of the online dating scene for the better part of eight years now. In that time I’ve

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I’m often hesitant to receive oral sex. It’s not that I don’t enjoy it, most of the time I do. It’s more

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