Do you find yourself drawn to dominant women? Are you a submissive at heart who loves to serve a sexy femdom?
There are many kinds of dominant women out there. Some like to rule the bedroom. Some call themselves femdoms, and take charge in all aspects of a relationship, taking the reins gently or cracking the whip.
You may like to be in long-term relationships with these women, or just submit to a femdom for casual hookups. Maybe paying a professional domme works for you, because you know you will get what you pay for and can be assured a high level of discretion.
Whatever your submissive leanings are towards dominant women, there are many ways to submit and serve these strong, beautiful women.
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Femdom Submission
As a switch, I not only enjoy playing the sub in submission and domination games in the bedroom, but I flip things around and like to wear a strap-on once in a while. It’s liberating and provides a different kind of high.
Let me share with you some ways to submit to the femdom in your life, or the one you’re hooking up with tomorrow! And just a reminder, it’s not all about sex.
Depending on the depth of your submission and relationship, you’ll want to know your limits and boundaries, and subsequently discuss them with your partner, even if it’s a casual hookup.
Consent makes the BDSM world go round… instead of off a cliff.
Read: Reasons to Date a Dominant Woman
5 Ways to Submit to a Dominant Woman
1. Let Her Make the Plans
Any good sub knows that a dominant woman likes to be in charge. She may complain that she has to do all the planning, but she would likely override your decisions anyway.
You don’t have a voice for what she wants or plans to do to you, and that’s the first step in femdom submission.
Read: Wait for Her to Initiate Sex
2. Be Open
Knowing your limits and boundaries doesn’t mean you can’t push them or allow her to gently nudge you. BDSM and sexual limits are not static but rather elastic, and can stretch and retract, depending on where we are in our lives, the person we are with, and what the chemistry looks like.
Read: Sexual Boundaries: Women and Men Share
3. Do What You’re Told
Submitting and serving includes obedience. Your femdom may just want you to clean and cook and wait on her for one day, or she may want you on all fours so she can lead you by the dog leash and collar around your neck.
The wonderful thing about domination and submission is that these roles live within a vast spectrum that can suit both vanillas who want to dabble in kink, hardcore BDSM enthusiasts, and everything in between.
4. Aim to Please
When you’re being told what to do, don’t just do it half-assed. Oh no, put yourself all in.
Femdom submission may take some elbow grease in the form of physical work or strength, or it may require patience and perseverance. She may want a two-hour oral session, or you may have your ass up for an hour while she pegs you from behind with her strap-on dildo.
Read: What Is Pegging? An Introduction to Strapon Sex
5. Take Your Punishment
Obeying a dominant woman’s commands is part and parcel of BDSM hookups and femdom play. B maybe you’re a submissive who likes to act out or complain, knowing that punishment will follow if you do.
Administering punishment to a male sub brings joy to many a dominant woman. This punishment can include spanking, bondage, financial repercussions, CBT, orgasm denial, or chastity cages. She will pick her poison!
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