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4 Kinky Things to Do with a Blindfold

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Have you always wanted to try blindfold play, but aren’t sure what it really offers? Maybe you’ve heard that it’s a kinky thing to do but aren’t sure why.

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I felt the same way until I did a bit of research and discovered some of the ways in which blindfolds can be a lot of sexy fun! Here are four ideas that I hope will inspire you.

Give Your Dirty Talk a Boost

One of the great things about dirty talk is its ability to build anticipation. Adding a blindfold to the mix is an excellent way to turn up the heat on this already sizzling activity. Make sure the blindfold is secure, but not too tight—a sleeping mask works well for the task.

Give your partner a play-by-play of what you’re doing. Are you slowly taking off your pants? Are you reaching for her favorite toy? Maybe your lips are hovering over her nipples, ready to deliver the pleasure you know she needs. Mix things up with a little intermittent reinforcement. Give into her desires some of the time but not always. In other words, keep her guessing.

Try a Little Tickle Torture

Tickling is great on its own, but put a blindfold on it and it becomes super hot. Use various devices of tickle torture, like feathers, ribbons, or long blades of grass. Tease your partner by randomly changing up the location of your tickles, as well as the intensity. Some particularly sensitive areas on which to focus on are the soles of her feet, her ribs, and her neck.

As with all things kinky, be sure to agree on a safe word beforehand, and keep an eye on your partner for signs of distress. Since laughing can make it hard for your partner to catch a breath, you might want to have a backup hand signal in case speaking is impossible for her.

Create a Two-Person Threesome

Pretend to be two different men by changing up your voice accordingly. Give one of your characters a more dominant role, then let your partner know that he is in charge of everything that goes down. The problem is, the other more submissive guy is so full of desire, that he can’t help but break the rules to satisfy his deep need for pussy.

If you want to make it even more interesting, build in a system of punishment and reward. Is she obeying your dominant character, or is she getting too turned on by submissive guy? Playing on the theme of forbidden lust will really heat things up.

Play “Guess Who”

By which I don’t mean the 1980s children’s game revolving around character identification—“It’s Alfred!” if you’re adventurous enough to try a real threesome, blindfold your partner, then take turns kissing and caressing her in all the way she likes. Be silent as you go about it, and let her guess whose turn it is.

I would suggest only trying this if you’re a secure and confident lover who is not prone to jealousy. Think of how you might feel if your girlfriend mistakes somebody else’s kiss for yours, or if she doesn’t recognize your touch? Don’t assume that this game will prove that you are the only man for her. It takes a very secure guy to engage in an MMF threesome, so give it lots of thought before you jump in.

Do you have any of your own stories of blindfolded fun? Why not leave us a comment!

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