As someone who has been in a serious relationship for years, I’ve met a lot of men who also enjoy the casual nature of hookups. I’ve also realized that there are very different kinds of hookup styles – how a man pursues, the kind of sex he wants, what he’s looking for, and what a hookup means to him. Because really, is a hookup ever just a hookup? Some people view this approach to dating as shallow, but others like myself know that there can be hookups that become something more than just a roll in the hay but less than a shared one-bedroom apartment. My curiosity inspired me to post this poll for our HookupLand readers. I want to know why men regularly or not-so-regularly hook up, whether it’s for casual sex, an escape, or just a lifestyle. Take this poll now and return to see the updated results.
If none of these answers describes your reasons for hooking up, tell us all about it in the comments! We love when readers share.