Why I Love Men with Kids

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Everyone talks about MILFs, but what about Dads I’d Like to F@#k? I’m way too young to think about settling down with someone, or have kids, and to be honest, I don’t know if I ever will. But there is something about a man with children  that makes me want to jump him.

My first DILF turn on went down when I was working as a nanny one summer. A man committed (to someone else!) gets me horny. I flirted with this dad (walked around in my skimpiest bikini) and I knew he was attracted to me, but he was afraid of his wife, if you know what I mean.

After that I began  searching online specifically for men with kids. There are tons and I know that a lot of women stay clear of these guys so there would be less competition. I was only after sex because the idea of being a step-mommy is a total freak out.

Terry, my last DILF, was a single dad. We’d meet in the park with his two-year-old son. It was super sweet to see him interacting, which brings me to what attracts me most to these guys. Most dads are protective, gentle (not necessarily in the bedroom!), responsible, devoted, real, empathetic, and often have a hunger that is not being satisfied because they are so busy with work and their kids. We had a three-week steamy affair. We even had sex in his bed while his wife was away on a business trip.

Besides online, I like to find dad eye-candy in the parks (although I do have to compete with single moms on the make). I also look for DILFs at the beach, in the library, and at the coffeeshops.

So if you’re in a sexless marriage and have kids, don’t despair and don’t be shy. If you catch a hottie like myself watching you, making eye contact –  make a move. Then tell us about your experience.

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  1. Dave

    July 11, 2012 at 10:01 pm

    Wow, never looked at it that way. I’m in a sexless marriage, about to be divorced, got 4 kids myself. I’m not dead yet, I still have desire, emotions just as any other guy. Though I admit I feel quite guilty about trying to get up some hotties skirt, I regardless cannot resist the urge to want to bang every woman within 30 meters of me. No, I don’t want a step mommy, so I am always afraid that a woman would think I would be expecting that from her when we hook up, after all my children are my responsibility. But if she had kids herself, it may be more at ease. I’ve always had the young guy bangin a single mom while kids are at school type of fantasy. Reading your article puts me at ease though, and now I hope I run into a hottie like at the park, or the local Dary Queen.

    • Jenny


      July 15, 2012 at 10:34 am

      Hi Dave, You sound like a great guy in need of a little loving. I went out with a newly divorced dad a couple of nights ago. He was very honest about not looking for a serious relationship, and I found this appealing. Embrace the changes in your life, and I’m sure the women will come:)

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