There are plenty of guys with a thing for Big Beautiful Women, but I still notice lots of men’s dating profiles that specify “slim women only” or “no fatties.” If you fall into the latter category of men, I’m not here to convince you to date fat girls—everyone has a right to their erotic tastes.
If you do flip past chubby women out of habit, you may be breezing right past the sex of your dreams. You are excluding hookup and relationship possibilities and narrowing the field of potential sexy adventures.
As a bisexual woman, who has always been petite with an athletic boyish build, I LOVE dating and making love to chubby women. From pleasantly plump to queen sized, I roll with the best of them.
Often, fat girls are not as annoying as slim and fit ones.
There’s nothing I can’t stand more than when beautiful women ramble on and on about nonexistent defects. Women who have had to face the world with real insecurities learn fast what matters. Many chubby women have been bullied, or have been patronized and told “pity, you could be so pretty.”
Bigger women see how sad it is to be obsessed with physical imperfections. As one of my lovers said, “It was either get comfortable fast with my body, or never use it and not enjoy sex and life. I chose to live and love passionately. It’s not that I don’t see my flaws—it’s that I don’t obsess over them.”
Chubby chicks take charge of their own pleasure.
We are more educated about why people might have excess weight—antidepressants, autoimmune problems, having children, genetics—so we know it’s not always about someone eating too much, but we are still bombarded with messages about what fat women are like.
When you are stereotyped as lazy, desperate, and lonely, but aren’t any of those things, you accept very quickly that you have nothing to prove. Women of size often create the kind of sex life they want, instead of waiting around to get lucky.
Big girls make out with the lights on.
It’s ironic that so many women who are objectively perfect just can’t let their inhibitions slide away. I don’t want to imply that all petite women are insecure or that no chubby women are, but in my experience BBW are hornier, less inhibited, more generous, and generally hotter in the sack than many other girls.
Rose, a friend who is a 3X, says, “Part of it is learning that sex isn’t just about being a perfect ten. Ironically, accepting that truth made me feel like I actually am perfect after all. I enjoy sex with all kinds of men, some hot and some ordinary… all people need and want sex, and they have a range of bodies and characteristics.”
Curvy gals feel fantastic.
Run your hands over a big woman and just concentrate on what you feel. I love a woman with curves that never end. I love to rest my head on a large soft tummy. I love to jiggle big ass cheeks. The kissing is so passionate, and the pussy so soft and warm.
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