It’s no surprise that men looking for hookups or casual relationships are looking to get laid. But maybe your desires are more specific. You want to find a woman who is willing to experiment with anal sex play—on you!
Whether your ass is more or less virgin, or you’ve enjoyed playing this way in the past, rest assured that it’s a common desire and practice.
4 Tips to Help You Find Ms. Right Now in a Strap-On
1. Consider seeking your pegging partner on niche sites with women who enjoy domination.
Your chance of bingo will be much higher if you’re seeking hookups and casual encounters among women who are experienced, adventurous, and have a dominant streak. While anal play and girl-on-guy penetration is something anyone can enjoy, it’s not everyday practice for many, and it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Increase your odds by seeking out the kind of women who already know it’s their thing on pegging hookup sites like these.
2. Try a longer term relationship or friends-with-benefits arrangement rather than one-off hookups.
You don’t HAVE to have a dominant streak to enjoy strap-on sex with guys, but it’s true that many women might not consider this casual sex. Penetrating a man can be a pretty intimate experience for her, and you. Some women are more comfortable expanding their repertoire and going further with someone they care about, rather than a one-night stand.
You can wait for a long-term relationship, but there are also committed partnerships that are for mutually beneficial sex, or polyamorous relationships wherein you share an ongoing connection but it’s not exclusive. Consider the different possibilities for sexual connection, and maybe you’ll find the girl who always wants to be on top!
3. Create an online dating profile that clearly communicates who you want to meet women with strap-ons.
If you whip out a monster dildo ten minutes after you take off your clothes during a hookup and ask her to butter you up, you’re probably not leaving there with a sore butt!
There is nothing wrong with asking for what you want, and in fact, it’s a courtesy to do so. You can do it up front, before meeting, or you can create a profile that clearly outlines the practices you are hoping for and what your sexual needs are.
4. Date like-minded women who enjoy fucking men with a dildo or strap-on.
Choose wisely from women’s online dating profiles. If she’s wielding a whip and says, “Your butt is mine,” there’s a better chance that you’re in the right place than if she’s seeking “a traditional relationship that begins the night that you put a ring on my finger.”
I know it sounds obvious, but sometimes dudes forget to see the clues and cues that are right there. They see a woman who is attractive, and skim over or ignore the personality traits and the needs and desires SHE is listing.
There are lots of women who fantasize about pegging, women who love the thrill of wearing a strap-on, and women who are super turned on by the idea of penetrating you. Find them!
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