Play-by-Play for Play
Anyone who thinks a woman doesn’t have a dirty mind has never had the good fortune of getting inside the mind of a woman. Tough part is, she often won’t spill the beans about the dirtyworks going on in there.
You sometimes have to encourage her a little, make a few suggestions. The irony being you’re only riffing from her own mental checklist.
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So let’s take it up a notch. I call this: The Everything I’m About to Do to You Game.* She need say nothing. In fact, the only vocalization on her part will likely be short, sharp aspirations of pleasure and deliciousness.
The concept is this:
1. You tell her everything you’re about to do to her before you do it. The catch is, she’s hog-tied (so can’t exactly stop it), blindfolded (so can’t see it coming), and ball-gagged (so can’t do much in the way of protesting).
2. Describe what it looks like while you do it. Describe what she looks like having it done to her. This is the play-by-play element. It makes her feel vulnerable — which is why she’s getting off, d’huh!
3. Ask her how she feels, but when the gag prohibits her answer, whisper, “Aw, that’s right, you can’t talk, you’ve got a ball-gag in your mouth. Dirty girl.” (That one’ll elicit a most satisfying moan, I promise.)
The things you do to her don’t need to be fancy at all. All the basics will do the trick:
- slide your fingers in any/all of her holes
- rub her body with your cockskin
- lick her in secret corners
- on and on, you get the idea
And remember, this game is for her, to treat her. You’ll get your turn when she’s damn good and done. And if you’ve played the game well, you’ll be more than compensated once she’s recovered from her bliss.
*Don’t be an asshole with this game. She may not enjoy everything you’re doing but won’t be able to tell you with that ball-gag in her mouth. Always have a safe-sign in case you need to stop, for whatever reason (often referred to as a safe word, but if you’re gagged it’s a wee bit hard to articulate much beyond “miiiibuurvfffvvv!”). Devise your own system, one that won’t spoil your session — but will ensure your comfort and safety. Game on!
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