Some like it hot, and some like it fat. But when it comes to the thrill of Big Beautiful Women (BBW), one size does not fit all!
A lot of men prefer women with some meat on their bones, and some guys like a LOT of meat. There are also many specific and particular kinks and fetishes around fat. Here’s what you need to know.
Attraction to BBW is very common.
The term BBW was coined by a magazine editor as a lifestyle market in the eighties. Clothing stores sometimes call them “plus” or “curvy girls” and porn sites often use “BBW” or the term “plumpers.”
It’s very common for men to like women with a bit of extra. In some cultures, it’s the preferred beauty standard. The preference ranges from slightly curvy to chubby to obese.
Find BBW hookups by getting rid of the “fit” or “thin” qualifiers on your dating profile.
Even women who are athletic might feel disqualified by your profile because women are often insecure and don’t understand that a natural layer of fat, even on thin girls, is how we’re made.
Stating size preferences on your dating profile also sounds like you will have more scrutiny than she can bear, even if she does meet that description.
You might have made this request without really thinking about it. Do chubby girls really turn you off? If so, that’s fine. But how do you know?
The reality is that a whopping forty percent of American women are considered obese, and men are not far behind those numbers.
If you want to meet more women, be open to the possibility that some plus-sized women are sexy and fun to be with.
We’re in this together.
It might be a social health problem that so many people are overweight, but that doesn’t mean we need to make it worse by not dating or mating—things that we know are healthy for us in body and mind.
Treat her like a queen.
The queen-sized gal is not sobbing at home by herself because no one wants to date her. So if you’re lucky enough to get a check mark on her dance card, treat her like the queen that she is.
Have fun with kinks and fetishes.
There are actually quite a variety of kinks and fetishes about fat, not just one preference.
An oversized gal stuffed into a rubber dress in sky-high heels is a common libido booster—a dominatrix who is larger than life is a super hot, super common fantasy.
“Gut flopping” and “squashing” are for guys who want to be suffocated between giant thighs or under titties and rolls. There are also feeder and feeding fetishes that focus on the act of eating and getting fatter. Because these women often becomes immobile to suit the partner’s fantasy, this kink is often dangerous, and is usually part of a master-slave relationship.
You’re not so bad yourself.
If you are also carrying an extra few around, make a resolution to tweak your habits for the better, and another resolution to enjoy yourself the way you are. If women aren’t interested, it’s probably your attitude shining through with some kind of keep-away signal. Although some girls prefer to date gym dudes, that usually tends to be a phase that eventually makes way for reality.
Aim to improve your fitness, yes, and lay off the beer and fries, but reach out to cute BBW tonight and see what happens!
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