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Why Women Want a Threesome

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There are many reasons why the threesome is one of the most popular fantasies among women.

If a lover or a potential hookup brings up the ménage à trois, you might want to consider what she wants from the threesome so that you know what to expect going forward.

Not all women want threesomes—some relate best sexually one on one, and some find too much stimulation distracting. Others aren’t interested in experimenting with women, and may find men less receptive to the MMF threesome. Some are shy. Some are simply not turned on by the idea.

But it’s still a top fantasy among women!

What Women Want from a Threesome

The Threesome Experience

Many women are interested in the threesome as an experience, not as a staple or regular routine.

So you may meet a woman who says she really enjoyed several threeways with a past lover, and then feel confused because she doesn’t want one now. Or maybe she wants one, and you indulge together and it’s super hot, but then she gets upset because you want to keep repeating it.

If you want a threesome with a lover, put yourself in her shoes. And put yourself in the position to have this experience with her, without expecting it to happen all the time.

She Wants Sex

The most obvious thing a woman wants from a threesome is often overlooked—sex!

Women may simply want sex, and a threesome is a hot kind of sex. If she’s horny and a threeway is on the menu, then hell yeah!

To Be with Another Woman

It is extremely common for us to fantasize about other women and to experiment and play with women sexually. For women who don’t identify as gay, it might be more comfortable to play in the context of male-female sex, so adding in a playmate works great. She may not feel fulfilled sexually with a woman one on one, and your thrill might be a big part of hers.

Or you may be in a relationship or dating a bisexual woman who will jump at the chance to go down on a woman.

Pussy is probably the most popular reason FFM threesomes are so popular with women.

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Variety, Adventure, and Novelty

Whether a threeway is her go-to fantasy, or just one that comes up on occasion, it offers variety from the usual routine.

In addition to variety, a threesome adds adventure and something different and new to the mix.

To Fulfill Your Threesome Fantasy

A woman might want to go to great lengths to indulge YOUR fantasies. This seemingly sexual act could actually be more emotional or competitive—she may want to show you she will do anything for you. This could be unhealthy, depending on the situation, or it could be an amazing gift.

In related news, women reach greater heights of arousal when YOU are super aroused. So taking sex to another level to witness your excitement is a huge turn on for HER.

To Share Something Special

She may not want a threesome with every man or woman she dates. It could be unique to her feelings for you, whether those feelings are emotional or sexual or both. A guy can be confused when it seems like a woman is “into” something, but isn’t into it with him. But for many women, it’s not the “thing” she is into, but some chemical reaction.

She might be into a threesome with you and suddenly have a thing for submission with another lover. Don’t overanalyze these inexplicable desires—just accept when it’s your turn and the desire is something she wants to share with you.

What do you want from threesome sex? Please share in the comments!

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