Can You Tell If a Woman is Kinky?

Unless you found your new hookup on a kink site, who’s to know whether or not you’ve landed yourself an alternative line-up for the night. Not everyone wears kink on their sleeve. Nor will you likely find (unless you were on a kink site like BDSMdate.com) anyone who’ll bombard you with kink on the first date.

But the tell-tell signs will rear their head soon enough.

Dirty Talk. Kinkers (as I like to call them) can talk the orgasm out of you. Never mind dirty — these folks are downright filthy with the lingo. Personally, I love it. It’s creative, sexy, and endless. It makes me feel like I’m starring in a porno.

Underwear. The fact that your hookup mightn’t be wearing any to begin with is always a good clue. Any day-to-day smalls they wear would for the rest of us be saved for a special occasion, like Valentine’s Day or something.

Toys. Not many people whip out the intimate toys on the first date. Not so with kinkers. Their toys might as well come with holsters. And the more over-the-top the better. Bright coloured dildos, lif-like dildos, plugs, cuffs, blindfolds, and on and on. And needless to say they know how to use them.

Scratching. You shouldn’t have to worry about BDSM on hookup night #1, but a little pain is to be expected. Fingernails go a long way, and you’d be surprised how much you’ll dig it. (You’d also be surprised to learn how many people enjoy hair-pulling. Just sayin’.)

Who Needs You? Don’t be surprised to find your kinky hookup masturbating while the two of you are getting it on. Kinkers aren’t shy that way. They’ll be touching themselves throughout. Wanna impress them? Join in.

Forbidden Planet. Not only is assplay on the table, it’s essential. Giving, receiving, all of it. Toys, mouth, fingers, cock—your kinky companion knows from experience that it’s pleasure worth chasing.

All-purpose Spit. Ever been spit on? It’s not as off-putting as it sounds. It’s kinky to not only spit on a cock or pussy during oral play, but to simply spit wherever on the body, anytime during sex. It takes you by surprise the first time, but as long as there’s no phlegm in it, I assure you it’s one of the sexiest moves on the kink menu.

You may not see all of these roll out at once, but anything on this list is worthy of trying if you’re looking to make sex more interesting. Oops, I mean kinky.