Are you sexually adventurous? Do you have group sex on the regular? Are you living the polyamory lifestyle or in an open relationship where threesomes are on the table?
Try out one of these threesome hookups with a couple of sexy lovers, then try another!
Threesome Hookup Ideas
Enjoy a Private Dancer
Here’s something that gets me hot. Going to a peeler bar with a date and enjoying the view while we sip beers and get close in a booth on the back wall. I love getting a couple’s table dance. It’s so hot to watch him getting horny and feel him getting hard, while my fantasies run wild when her naked breasts brush my face.
There’s one thing missing from this sexy scenario—taking the dancer home.
If you’re planning a threesome and you’re part of a couple, set up a low-lit strip lounge in your living room. A few martinis, some Led Zeppelin, and a stripper pole are easy to set up. Make it wildly exciting for all three of you by keeping your hands off of the dancer until you actually get her to the bedroom. This pumps up the volume big time.
Not sure where to meet your third? Read our article: Do Threesome Dating Sites Really Work?
Play the Sugar Daddy
If lingerie is your thing, have an afternoon of soft-core foreplay by taking your two ladies to some saucy boutiques to spoil them senseless with all the tiny teddies you want to see them in.
Stop somewhere sumptuous for early drinks on the way home, and hold out even longer.
When all of you are thinking about each other naked all day, and you’re spoiling your girls, they’re going to want to take good care of you when the door closes.
On a more practical note, this one is fun and lighthearted. Also, being out in semi-public takes some of the strain off the preamble. You’re all engaged with one another in a sexy way, but you’re out and about in the world, giving plenty of time to relax and get comfortable while having fun and being indulged.
Let Your Threesome Freak Flag Fly
The same fetishes that drive you wild one on one—whether BDSM, a foot fetish, or piss play—work great for three.
Make sure you meet your fetish threesome hookups in the context of kink, and don’t just throw a whip and paddle into the playroom with no forewarning. Finding interested parties won’t be hard—it will actually be easier to find kinky folks looking for threesomes than vanilla folks, especially when you use dating sites for kinky couples.
Explore the MMF Threesome
The MMF threesome is way less common than the FFM arrangement.
In part, this is because women who enjoy threesomes often love them because they can indulge their bisexual side. Most women fantasize about other women and the sensuality of making love to a woman drives us wild even if we’re all about the guys.
Some dudes are comfortable with the MMF, and some go along with it in order to indulge a woman’s fantasies. But more of you see the MMF as a very occasional experiment. It’s not even that you’re worried about being gay—in this day and age, you know that doesn’t matter—it’s just that straight dudes aren’t wired to want to make love to other men, they’re programmed to compete with them for the main course.
Curious? Read 4 Reasons to Try an MMF Threesome.
So go ahead and use that competitive edge. Watching her get fucked by the guy next door amps up your testosterone and sperm count like crazy, and two of you servicing your lady together will bring her to screaming new heights. It’s also hot to teach another man what you know about your lover, if the MMF includes a couple.
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