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Do Threesome Dating Sites Really Work?

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Are you interested in finding a threesome?

Whether you’re a couple looking for a third, or a single hoping to connect with a couple, you might have wondered if a threesome dating site is a good place to start. Do they really work? Short answer – yes. More precise answer – it depends.

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Depends on what? What are the factors that determine whether a threesome dating site is legit, or is going to actually help you find a three-way? Consider the following and decide for yourself if you’re ready to take the threesome site plunge.

Not all 3some sites are created equal.

This one is pretty obvious, and is important because choosing the right site is going to make a big difference.

I haven’t been able to find a 100% free threesome dating site, but there ARE free sites where people sometimes try to find a third or other couples. Not an easy task because those sites don’t offer what I think is essential: couple profiles.

True threesome dating sites should offer profiles for couples. Makes sense right? It encourages more couples to join the site, and definitely makes searching for your threesome a much easier task.

Secondly, you want a site with LOTS of members. Not thousands, but millions! Or at least a very large amount of possible matches in your city. I like FindaThreesome.com for most people because they are worldwide and truly massive, but I also think 3somedating.com is a good option for those in the UK because the company is based there.

And what about threesome dating apps? I’ll be posting a review of these types of apps soon, but between us the sad truth is that these apps are just too new and don’t have the numbers to make it worthwhile. Not yet anyways.

What can you do to make yourself stand out?

Since I’ve just suggested that you join a site like Find a Threesome that has millions of members, what’s going to stop you from getting lost in the crowd? How will you meet others that are serious about finding a real threesome?

Plain and simple – be upfront about what you want, and complete your profile as fully as possible. So you need to answer all those picky questions about your interests and desires, and certainly add at least one photo as well. If you’re shy about it or need a bit of discretion, know that a good threesome site will let you keep your photos private and share them with only the members you choose.

As for being upfront – I strongly suggest putting your threesome mission on display in your introduction title. Something like, “Playful couple seeking threesome dates” gets the point across! And if you can add tags or anything like that to your profile, go ahead and make sure keywords like threesome, 3some, unicorn hunter, or whatever it is you’re into are there, because when other people start searching, you want them to find YOU!

Be responsive. Be proactive. Go get ’em tiger!

The bottom line here is that yes, threesome hookup sites do work. But you’ve got to choose a legitimate site and on top of that you’ve got to make some effort with a little self promotion. Once you’ve chosen your site and have an eye-catching and threesome-specific profile set up, the final piece of the puzzle is also up to you.

Make it happen! Don’t wait for the site to send you matches or for other people to message you. Be forward and flirty! Send messages to everyone who interests you, ask questions, flatter your favorites, and log in often. Not only will this get you engaged in conversation with more potential partners, in most cases it also encourages the dating site to feature your profile more often. The more you participate, the more chances you’ll have to make those all-important online connections that turn into real life encounters.

Final Thoughts.

While your ability to find threesomes with a dating site are somewhat limited by the site you choose in the first place, remember that your success in the end is very much in your hands. People ARE finding threesomes on these sites, and if you want to be one of them then you’ve got to make the effort. A unicorn is not just going to fall into your lap because you filled out a profile.

Be sure to make yourself visible and easy to find for other threesome seekers, and ensure your membership allows others to easily contact you. Use all the cool features that sites like FindaThreesome offer like instant messaging and video chat. Not only is it fun, but all this activity creates more and more opportunities for you to turn that fantasy into reality.

Threesome seekers, I love your zest for life and I love your questions! Whether you want to ask about specific sites, or need more help achieving your first of many threesomes, please ask away in the comments below.

xo Lola

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