Make Her Beg to Be On Top!
Last week I wrote a post about how to get more pleasure from the missionary position and it inspired me to think about that other staple of sexual expression: the cowgirl position. Having your lady climb on top is already great for so many reasons. She can have more control over the speed and direction of penetration, and you can relax and just enjoy the ride, but there are more ways to make your experience even better! She might not want to fuck you any other way once the two of you try out these four simple tips.
4 Tips for Girl-On-Top Sex
1. Suck Her Nipples
You’ve probably already tried the whole hands on her breasts thing. I mean, they’re right there for the squeezing, but have you also tried nibbling and sucking on her nipples? Put your hands on her back and gently pull her forward until her nipples meet your lips. Not only will this heighten her arousal, it will create a new angle, allowing your cock to hit her super sensitive clit.
You can also prop yourself up to more of a seated position. This will allow you to reach her breasts as she takes you deeply into her hot, wet pussy.
2. Use a Vibe to Stimulate Her Clit
Having your partner on top gives you easy access to her clit, so why not take advantage of it by working in a little vibrator action? You could try a vibrating cock ring, which has the added benefit of prolonging your erection, or simply use a handheld vibe of your lady’s choice. Chances are she has her own and can use it with expert precision.
She might want to do the deed herself or hand the reins over to you for some sweet elements of surprise. Just be aware of the sensitivity factor. Vibes can deliver a pretty intense sensation, which might be too strong for prolonged clit action. If your partner seems to be jumping out of her skin, back off a bit, or maybe try a slightly higher position, around the clitoral hood.
3. Try the Waterfall Position
The what?! You ask. The waterfall position is something I came across in my research into new and exciting things to do in the sack. Essentially it requires that you, the man, lie with your hips and legs on the bed while the rest of you drapes over the edge and onto the floor, just like a (wait for it) waterfall.
Once you’ve positioned yourself, your partner climbs on top and impales herself with your massive erection. I say “impale” because according to the masters of sex, your cock would be so deep inside her at this point that you might need to pitch a tent and build a fire. You’d obviously want to exercise caution with this one. Don’t try it if you’re not super flexible, have a bad back or neck issues. Also be sure you’re in a comfortable enough place that you’re not going to fall off the bed and hurt yourselves.
4. Grab Her Hips and Ass
This is fairly basic technique, especially when compared to the previous one I mentioned. All you need to do is help guide your partner’s movements by grasping at her hips and/or ass. Aside from enhancing your own experience, this action will really convey the passion you’re feeling in the moment, and will make your girlfriend feel super hot and desired. Just don’t hold her to you against her will. If she wants to shift her position or disengage, let go of her right away.
What other suggestions do you have for making the most of girl on top? I’d love to hear them!