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How to Make Your Hookup Horny

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A hookup can be a one-night love affair or a quickie. No matter what the situation, you want her to have the best possible time.

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Her pleasure is at least as important to you as yours is, but you know from experience that men and women have different ways of warming up and the timing is not always in tandem.

Since the best hookups are all about both of you being horny, how can you make her horny, fast?

Anticipation is key.

Anticipation is great for you, too, but for a woman, it’s at least as important as the sex itself.

George Clooney himself could knock at the door right now, naked, and while I wouldn’t turn it down, such an impromptu thrill would have been better if he’d called an hour ago to let me know he was coming.

As soon as you know there’s going to be a hookup, whether you’ve met her already or will be getting down and dirty for the first time, start putting ideas into her head. Something simple and suggestive is perfect. “I can’t stop thinking about how good you’ll feel…”

Memory is a powerful aphrodisiac.

Almost as intense as your tongue on my clit is my memory of it.

If you’ve had hot hookups with this date before, think of some specific details and use them.

Can’t think of any? Think harder. What do you see when you masturbate about the encounter? Ah, yes, that neon yellow thong splitting her ass into two moons. The ruby birthstone pendant dangling against her nipple. Remind her of how you moved it aside to take her breast in your mouth. Remind her what song was playing when she came twice. The details will bring the context right back to life.

Pay attention.

If you read my posts, you know how often “pay attention” makes it into every to-do list! That’s because I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to women.

I love sex and want lots of variety and lots of men in my bed. If you’re only going to be with me for an hour or two of your life, I expect you to focus on the here and now and hear what I say and see what’s in front of you. It’s not just hot, it’s basic courtesy.

Foreplay, of course.

Foreplay is anticipation and it’s a pleasure in its own right. Kissing, groping, teasing, playing—sometimes we forget the joy of making out. Don’t! Physiologically, the stimulation before sex cranks her to heights that the sex won’t get her on it’s own.

Foreplay should start while still in clothes. Too many times on a date, my date took off his clothes and thought I should come out of the washroom naked.

Let it start with the clothes on, continue with the clothes partway off, and carry on still more after they’ve been removed!

Barring the really quick quickie, like ducking into a library bathroom or behind a dumpster or something, even a time-constrained hookup should include various stages of foreplay. They might not be as leisurely as at an all nighter, but I’m sorry—sex is NOT just sticking it in. My sex includes kissing, teasing, touching, fingering, and sucking.

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